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Our Tanzanian Homestay Experience

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Jambo!

Over this past weekend we had the opportunity to have a home stay experience in various parts of the Kilimanjaro region. We split up into groups of two and three. Angie, Yeudith, and I were in the same group and paired up with a lovely family.

Our baba, Peter came to pick us up and brought us to his restaurant, located near the base of Mt. Kilimanjaro, where we stayed for the next two days. Everybody we met was so kind and welcoming, they truly made us feel a part of their family. Peter and his friends helped us with our Swahili and introduced us into his daily life.

On Saturday, we walked up to the gates of Mt. Kilimanjaro where we got a tour of the base and a beautiful view of the village.

Later in the day, our baba drove us to his home where we met his wife and two sons. His wife, Agnes cooked an amazing home cooked meal as we played UNO with the boys. She cooked us a meal, ndizi (banana stew), traditional to the Chaga people. The Chaga people live in the Mweka village. We got a glimpse into their daily life, which integrates a sense of brotherly love among all neighbors.

Driving down the muddy road, there was not a single person Peter did not acknowledge, from beeping his horn to pulling over for s short conversation. We passed an old woman whose conversation lasted a little longer than the others.

When we left, he explained that she was a life-long friend of his mother, so “There is never an appropriate time to pass her without saying hello and giving her shikamo.”

The next day we went to mass. Experiencing mass in a different country was quite interesting, especially since we didn’t understand much of the mass. The mass lasted a little over three hours and afterwards we ate lunch together.

After lunch we traveled back to the retreat center and shared our experiences with the rest of the team.

On Monday we will continue our Swahili lessons, can’t wait to see what else we learn! 

Kwaheri!

With love,

Angie, Yeudith, and Haley

We Have Arrived!

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After 2 days of travel we were received with generous hospitality by our hosts. We are staying at the Mwenge Retreat Centre with a breathtaking view of Mt. Kilimanjaro, though we haven’t seen it yet due to the clouds.  Our expectations have been totally blown out of the water. The incredible hospitality, amazing accommodations, and the warmth and kindness of everyone we have met so far has been overwhelming. We are taking it all in.

On our first day we toured Mwenge Catholic University (MWECAU) and met some MWECAU students who took us to the local market in the afternoon which was sensory overload, if not a bit challenging. We also visited Shah Industries, a family business that employs people with disabilities who are skilled artisans in many crafts with leather, wood, and other materials.  So many beautiful things to see and buy.

Today we focused on learning the local language of kiswahil with our excellent MWECAU professors and university student “rafikis” to help us practice. We laughed a lot as we stumbled over new words and phrases with plenty of embarrassing mistakes. 

 

We are off to Homestays for 2 days and will share about our experiences when we return.  

Kwaheri! 

Final Post: L’Arche Bologna 2018

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There is so much I want to say about my experience at the L’Arche community in Bologna, Italy but I will never be able to describe the reality of my experience or fully express the appreciation, gratitude, and love I have for it.

First and foremost, I would like to thank God for calling me to serve and leading me to L’Arcobaleno. Before applying and after getting accepted, there were so many times when I was so nervous and unsure about going. Two months, in a city I’ve never heard of, in a community where I didn’t know anyone (not even my co-volunteer from UP), working with groups of people I haven’t really had much experience working with before, and expected to speak a language I’ve never learned, I was terrified. But regardless of all these factors, I knew I really wanted to do this. Not just because it was an excuse to go back to Europe, or solely because of my interest in learning more about and working with intellectually disabled peoples, but because something bigger and unknown kept drawing me to go, to not worry, and to trust in God.

Fast forward to one month in and I was already devastated that I had only one month left. Then the next thing I know, my time came to an end on the 22nd of May, the last month going by in a blink of an eye. And now, it has been over two months since I left Arca and I miss the community and the life I had so dearly.

There are so many things I have come to love about living in community with the ragazzi, or core members. Life was simple. We woke up, ate breakfast together, went to morning greeting and prayer together, participated in some kind of morning activity together (such as physical therapy, art, music, etc.), ate lunch together, took breaks, helped prepare food or the dining table together, ate dinner together, cleaned up together, and then prayed together before going to bed. The house where I was assigned to workr, Cedro, we loved to listen to dance music so a lot of times we would even dance together. Also, before and after every meal, we would sing songs of grace together. Even though this lifestyle sounds mundane or monotonous, I enjoyed every bit of it because I got to share it with some truly amazing people. Everyone had their own pasts, stories, differences, and quirks but we all lived together humbly and enjoyed each other’s presence. The simplicity of our routine made it easier to understand and get to know the ragazzi better. From their seats at the table, to their preferences of music, to what exercises they had to perform during physical therapy, and observing their little quirks, we had come to know them and use these observations to help strengthen our relationships with them. It was a constant struggle not being able to fully communicate with them, but regardless of the language barrier, we were able to build genuine relationships. Through lots of nonverbal communication, being able to anticipate specific needs after some observation, and just merely being present, we became friends and family with these core members, and that was priceless.

During our second week at Arca, we went out for gelato with a few assistants and other volunteers. While we were all getting to know each other, we would also talk a lot about the ragazzi. One assistant made a comment about the ragazzi that resonated with me since and he said, “they are just like us”. That was the biggest lesson that I learned while living life with these disabled adults is that in many ways, we are the same. We all have our good and bad days, our stories that makes us who we are, our vulnerabilities, our weird quirks, some sass and attitude, our own preferences, and most importantly, our yearn to love and to be loved.

Overall, I made the best decision of my life to spend my summer at Arca in Bologna. My experience was very eye-opening and life changing to say the least. It gave me a chance to be completely immersed into Italy’s beautiful culture, the opportunity to get out of my comfort zone, to be able to live and work with disabled adults, to learn a new language, to eat Italian food every single day, to have time and space to grow and reflect, to build meaningful relationships, and to be a part of something bigger than you. I was so lucky to have been given this opportunity through UP’s Moreau Center and L’Arche. I also could not have done it without the constant support from my friends and family. Now, I am back at UP and not a day goes by without missing the Arcobaleno community or wishing I was back in Bologna. But being in the present, I hope that as I go through my clinical experiences as a nursing student and building community in my dorm as an RA, I can reflect the love and patience I have received at Arca.

I am ending this final blog with a few of my favorite quotes from Jean Vanier, the founder of L’Arche:

“We are not called by God to do extraordinary things, but to do ordinary things with extraordinary love. ”

“One of the marvelous things about community is that it enables us to welcome and help people in a way we couldn’t as individuals. When we pool our strength and share the work and responsibility, we can welcome many people, even those in deep distress, and perhaps help them find self-confidence and inner healing.”

My birthday at Arca!

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The other week, I had the privilege of celebrating my 20th birthday here at Arca Bologna. Right when I woke up and walked into the kitchen, I was sung to by the core members of Cedro. Throughout the day, I felt so loved by the community with every greeting and hug I received. I was blessed to have had a homemade pizza and cake for my birthday dinner made by my family here in Cedro. And to top it off, I was given a birthday card signed by all the members of Cedro and a tortellini magnet that has Bologna written on it. I did not expect anything at all for my birthday here and I thought I would be sad not being able to spend it with my family back home, but in reality I was not sad at all! My heart was filled with so much love given to me by the family I have come to make here.

With less than 2 weeks left, I can speak for the both of us that we are getting really emotional thinking about leaving our home here. I am so touched by the people here who have welcomed us and showed us patience and compassion every single day. God has truly blessed me with this opportunity and I am so grateful for ending my teen years and starting my twenties with the most loving community.

L’Arche Bologna, Italy: One Month Recap

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     The past couple of weeks have been easier in the sense I know the core members, assistants and the schedule better. I know what to do at certain times and where I should be. I know the members’ habits and who needs some assistance with specific tasks. I just feel that I am more in-tuned with L’Arche and the way of life.

     My greatest accomplishment so far has been to create relationships with the ragazzi (core members with disabilities) through other ways of communication besides verbal. One person in my house is not the most talkative guy, but I was just mimicking his movements a week ago and just that simple interaction earned me a smile. Then the next few days I would sit next to him and rub his back to just comfort him. This progressive bonding transcending to him falling asleep on my shoulder one day after lunch when we were on the couch again. I felt so honored that he felt so comfortable with me to fall asleep and relax. This whole experience gave me a new appreciation for other ways to communicate. With other ragazzi, I have been using like hand motions and facial expressions to get across my point, but still be a part of the conversation. Now, when the core member sees me, he always goes out of his way to say hi to me and greet me; it just makes fills me with happiness knowing we may not speak the same language, but we still connected.

     Along with me adapting to different ways of communication, I have become more used to the gentle, slow lifestyle that is here. My time at L’Arche has really let me reflect and evaluate my life in comparison to life here. In America, we have this giant, imaginative clock hanging over heads dictating our time, making us feel pressure and also, rushing us. It seems like there is not enough time to do all things we want when there actually is plenty of time. At first I was always feeling like I should be doing something, but here, that is not the priority. The main objective is not for all the ragazzi to finish their projects at the end of a day’s work or eat as quickly as possible to go to the next activity. This lifestyle is about just being in the moment and being present. With this lifestyle, I have been able to have more of a focus, organized mind, and in general, an appreciation for time.

At the end of this experience, I hope to learn and keep some of the tools that I have used. However, these two points: communication and time have changed my perspective tremendously. I hope to keep these values in mind when I go back to home because I can use them for my future nursing career. Also, these will keep me in check by realizing that there is time to take a breath and I do not need to always be on the move.

Living in Community

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Three weeks have passed since our first day here and I can easily speak for the both of us that time is flying by so quickly! At first, the days seemed to go by extremely slow. I felt bored just sitting around not doing anything, waiting for the next meal or activity. When minutes felt like hours, in my head I constantly thought, what am I doing? Why am I here? How is sitting here benefiting me or the community members? I questioned the purpose of my position. As a volunteer, I initially thought that I should be helping clean, cook, or do some sort of physical work instead of just sitting around doing nothing. It wasn’t until a fellow volunteer gave me some advice when I better understood my purpose. He told me that we don’t need to be doing something every second, that our job is not only to do chores but it’s more so to spend time with the community members. That advice changed my perspective and attitude when sitting with the community members. Even though I can’t speak much italian with the community members, sitting with them is not doing nothing, but it is being present with them, enjoying each other’s company, and sharing a common experience. I realized this opportunity I have right now isn’t like most volunteer experiences I’ve had in the past. L’Arche is so unique because we are living in community with intellectually disabled peoples. And living in community with people can be very similar to community living, such as dorms or even our own homes, where everyone contributes to the running of the house or building, and we do almost everything together. With this new knowledge, I now know that my job here is to be just another member of the house, to eat, to relax, to dance, to pray, to clean, and to participate as the other community members do, even when that involves sitting around. As week four comes to a start, days seem to be going by much quicker, days are more routine, relationships with community members, other volunteers, and assistants are growing stronger, and every day challenges are getting a lot easier to overcome. I can say with much confidence that I am loving it here and I do not regret coming here one bit!

L’Arche Bologna, Italy: Weeks 1 and 2

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After two weeks of living at the L’Arche Bologna community, I have met many friendly people and have learned a lot. The core members are really the highlight of my day. I love interacting with them, even with my basic elementary Italian skills. If I can get a smile or a laugh, that is a plus for me because it is a step towards a relationship with them. They are quite the characters and really make this place a lively home. The assistants have been super helpful and supportive. I appreciate them teaching us Italian and teaching us about their lifestyle. Some have gone out of their way to include us in activities outside of the community and show us what Italy has to offer which has been so kind. The volunteers, too, have taken us in and have showed us the ropes. They have eased our worries because they have talked about their first few months here and how it gets easier with the language barrier. I will say the one thing that has been the biggest challenge is the language. I wish I had prepared more, but what better way to learn a language than immersion, right? I am learning as I go and that is just fine. I am truly thankful for Julia and how we are going through this experience together. She is my adventure buddy and I am so so glad she is here with me. Overall, it has been two weeks of learning, adjusting to this culture and schedule. However, wherever I turn there is someone who is there to help me. I feel welcomed into their home, now I just need to absorb some Italian words!

Quarto di Luna

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Quarto di Luna • June 1-6

During this past week, there was a big celebration in the town of Quarto Inferiore, where L’Arche Bologna is located just about 20 minutes outside of Bologna. The fest, Quarto di Luna, included specific events every day. Two events that we participated in as a community was the parade and the Open Day. For the parade, the L’Arche community formed a marching band. I had the pleasure of representing L’Arche Bologna by marching along the main street of Quarto Inferiore with my new community, loud and proud, banging on cow bells. The following day, L’Arche Bologna hosted an Open Day where we opened the gates to anyone in the town to come check out the community to get to know the members, eat some cake, watch performances, play with chickens and turtles, dance, and release balloons into the sky! It was a busy week preparing for and participating in the festivity but it sure was a lot of fun!

Pre-departure Thoughts and Arrival in Bologna

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May 22-24, 2018

Pre-departure thoughts and my arrival in Bologna:

When I first applied for this L’Arche Bologna program, I didn’t have much of an idea on what I was putting myself into. The posters in Mehling caught my attention since freshman year, but I was never sure if I was capable of the challenge. Freshman year I didn’t apply, but this year I did. After studying abroad for a semester in Salzburg, Austria and experiencing L’Arche at UP, I thought it wouldn’t be so out of my comfort zone as it seemed before. Leading up to my departure, there was never a point where I was certain of what was to come or if I was sure of myself in following through. Hearing the experiences of those who went before me sounded inspiring and informative but also left me with a lot of uncertainty. I have never learned italian before and I have never worked with disabled adults before L’Arche at UP, which I only participated in a total of 3 times. However, I knew I wanted to do something meaningful with my last free summer. Even though I wanted to work and earn money, especially after studying abroad, I remembered how unhappy I was last summer nannying 9hrs/day, 4days/week. I complained about the kids I nannied, the pay I wasn’t getting enough of, the gas I had to pay for, and dealing with traffic just to get anywhere. So when I reflected on L’Arche Bologna after getting accepted, I knew this would be a great opportunity for me. It was a chance for me to get out of the hustle and bustle back home and take a step back to not stress about money, traffic, or making plans with friends to make my social media account look like it’s filled with fun summer activities. Rather, I could focus on building relationships which is something I love to do. I look forward to learning from my interactions and relationships with the community members on how to be present.
A few days before arriving in Bologna, my mom and I traveled to Barcelona and Rome. In Rome, we ran into some crazy experiences. Quick side note, I’m the kind of person that believes in fate, karma, and signs for almost everything in my life. That is my way of understanding God’s plan for me and how he works in mysterious ways. Anyways, in Rome, we arrived in the afternoon knowing we missed the big Pentecost Mass in St. Peter’s Square and the papal blessing which I was wanting to attend but couldn’t because of our schedule of transportation. But after we arrived, we entered the Basilica that evening, which was a blessing itself to be there, and we got to attend a small evening mass inside the front portion of the St Peter’s Basilica. I thought, how lucky am I  to be here at the right place at the right time? It must mean a good sign in order to have God bring me here before going to L’Arche Bologna. However the following day, my mom got pickpocketed on the metro and lost the cash she was leaving me for my spending money during my stay in Europe. I thought, how unlucky were we to have a handful of cash stolen. It must be a bad sign, which made me second guess my luck for the next two months here in Italy. But later that day, we were lost trying to figure out which bus to take to the Trevi Fountain and luckily, a Franciscan priest noticed we were lost and offered his help. He guided us the way because he was fortunately going near the fountain. When I told him why I was visiting Italy and told him about L’Arche, his face lit up! He was so happy to hear that I was doing volunteering for L’Arche and fulfilling God’s work. When saying goodbye, he blessed me and offered his prayers. After a strange sequence of events in less than 24 hours, I tried to process everything that happened and what it meant. I came to a conclusion that even though I had something bad happen to me, the good overcame the bad and I learned a lesson. And whether it was a sign of good or bad luck, I think the events prepared me with the mindset that my experience here won’t be easy breezy. I’m going to have bad days where I might question ehy I’m here. But I’m also going to have some amazing days that will be the token of my summer. Regardless, God will guide me and assure me that I will take away new knowledge and appreciation.
Finally the day has come, and we arrived in Bologna. Daniela picked my mom and I up from the train station and welcomed us into the community. For our last evening together, my mom wanted to eat out around the community and get familiar with the area. We stumble upon this pizza place which is super small but was so delicious! As we were eating our scrumptious pizza, we were watching the small tv in the restaurant on a show about traveling and tasting different teas in Asian countries. Then all of a sudden, my hometown, Shizuoka, which is also home to amazing green tea, came on the screen. What a coincidence that I was here, in this tiny pizzeria just outside Bologna, and my hometown appears on tv? Thinking about all these random experiences that had happened in such a short amount of time upon my arrival in L’Arche Bologna (again), I believe it must’ve been weird messages from God telling me it’s going to be just fine here, that I’m supposed to be here.
Now that’s it’s been a few days here, I am adjusting and adapting to a different agenda, language, culture, food, and life in general. It’s been difficult mostly because of the language barrier and not really knowing what we should be doing. But, it’s really nice to have Asia with me knowing that we are both going through the same thing. I have lots of questions, and mosquito bites, but I also have a lot more peace and laughter here as well. One thing I have already come to love is how every morning during the weekdays, the entire community gathers together to pray, share announcements, and to pass a bell around to say “buongiorno” and their name to every single member. It is currently a struggle memorizing everyone’s names and just comprehending their Italian, but nonetheless I’m thrilled to be here. I’m so happy to see what’s to come these next two months!

The Butterflies

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In less than a few hours I will be leaving the country for a journey. I am looking forward to experiencing life inside of L’Arche and being involved in a community that bigger than us. I am excited to be immersed in Italy’s culture, language and the people there. I am most worried about my Italian language skills, but it will be a good challenge in my communication techniques and this experience will help with my future nursing career. I am also not a very experienced flyer, but that will not stop me. This whole experience will be about many challenges, however, these will help me grow in the end. I cannot wait to be living in a community and to see what Jean Vanier wrote about in person.

I just want to thank the people who got me here. Thank you to Irene, Michael, Laurie and all the supportive people in my life.  Now it is my turn to do the rest and I am so thankful to have Julia by my side along the way.