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What classes are you most excited about this semester?

What new clubs or groups will you get involved with this semester?

Share some ways you plan to manage your time to avoid stress?

What are your housing plans for next fall?

For parents of Seniors: What do you hope to be sure to do during your final semester on campus?

by Vicki Nelson, College Parent Central (edited for length)

If this is the first time that your student will be home for more than a few days since you dropped him off on move-in day, you may be more than a little nervous about what to expect. Some of the keys to a great break for everyone are to anticipate what to expect, be prepared, and communicate with your student.  We’d like to offer a few highlights to get you started.

Be prepared for a time that may not be what you expect

• Remember that everyone — you, your student, other family members, will be readjusting for the first few days. It may feel uncomfortable to everyone at first.
• Remember that the student who comes home for Winter Break will not be the same student you dropped off on Move-in Day. Your student has grown in many ways.  Take time to get to know him.
• Remember that the last few weeks of the semester have been stressful. He needs some downtime right now.  Home is the place where he can feel comfortable enough to sleep a lot, count on some good (non-dining hall) food, and generally just ”crash” for a bit.
• Your student may feel awkward and out of place. He is not a resident in this home anymore, but he’s not a guest.  It may take some time for him to find his place.
• Try not to be shocked and alarmed the first time your student refers to school as ”home.”

Keys to getting through

• Stay flexible. Try to go with the flow — for a while, anyway.
• Ask for communication. Talk to your student about expectations and things that may need to be done — or avoided.
• Be available. Be patient. Stay out of the way but be there if your student wants to talk.
• Remember to spend a lot of time listening.
• Be the parent. It may take some time to get to know your student as the new adult that he is becoming.  Enjoy it.  But continue to be the parent.  Be clear about any house rules that you don’t feel you can compromise on. Whether the issue is curfew, respect for others who need to go to work early, family obligations or chores, help with siblings, laundry, dishes, or attitude; be clear about what can or can’t be negotiated. Talk about it early in the break before it becomes an issue.

It’s a special time

• Although you and your student will likely have some ups and downs over the break, it’s mostly wonderful to have him home again. Enjoy!
• But remember — it’s OK for both of you feel ready for break to be over by the end.

There’s a lot that can go into making Winter Break go smoothly. 

Wednesday, January 3: Spring tuition is due

Saturday, January 13: Residence Halls reopen for returning students

Monday, January 15: Semester begins. MLK day: no classes, offices closed

Friday, January 19: Last day to waive student health insurance from PacificSource

Friday, January 19: Last day for on-campus students to change their Meal Plan level

March 4-8: Spring Break

April 29 – May 2: Finals week

Friday, May 3: Residence Halls close for students who are not graduating

Sunday, May 5: Commencement

Monday, May 6: Residence Halls close for graduating students